Young and beautiful

Listening today to "young and beautiful" by Lana De La Ray, one of my favourite songs.It makes me wonder if there is anything called true love after all, the way we were taught it is when we were children...true love is unselfish , it is brave, it is not based on material things, and, it is forever. This concept of forever has been blown away by modern life, when we are living lives that only sustain strips n snippets of people we love and like.but is it still possible to love unselfishly and love without consideration of looks, age, appearance? These days even bank balance is a great aphrodisiac, so why blame men when they run after bone structure, hair colour, size, etc ? I used to believe that true love must be out there but not happened to me.. But love is what happens to one when one is making other plans. The first time I realized I was in love was when I experienced near physical pain at the possibility of being away from him. And in a few days it was all over, all my defences gone, my ego taking a hike, my pride melted away into the warm emotions welling up in my heart. And it has never left me. Why I don't Mind the imperfections of heart and mind which I can see with my eyes and recognize with my brains, I don't know. I just know it is joy to be in the same room even, it is peace to smile at and be smiled at, it is oneness to speak to and to hear, it is losing which makes one treasure most. And to meet is to be alive, it is pain if the other is in pain, and joy if one sees joy in their eyes. And not being with me is still being with me. I guess I cannot diagnose it scientifically, I can only feel.How is it that two people can be so similar and feel the other can't do wrong is unexplainable, honestly. I say,whatever feels wrong with others feels right with u, and never felt so right. And the pain still stays with me, but I prefer it to all other pleasure . How come all my friends can't talk me out of it is another mystery. So I guess, if I feel this way, if the passing years don't matter, maybe I can be lucky and he feels the same about me? Seems to, and it's true that true love is felt in actions rather than in words..but to be on the safe side I would try to continue being beautiful, if can't hold on to youth... but no, it is the heart that loves the other heart, not the body.. And , it is , sadly for some, forever, if it is true..but would I have it any other way? The answer, as u say, is a big no.